Essential Oils to Support Empaths
- laurasemotions
- Oct 3
- 4 min read
You know that feeling when the world’s emotions hit you like a tidal wave? Yeah, being an empath is like having a superpower and a curse all rolled into one. I’ve been there—overwhelmed by other people’s feelings, drained after social events, and sometimes just craving a little peace in the chaos. That’s where essential oils come in. They’re like tiny bottles of calm, ready to help you find your emotional balance when everything feels too much.
Let me take you on a little journey through the best oils to support empaths. I’ll share what works, why it works, and how you can use these magical drops to protect your energy and soothe your soul.
Why Essential Oils for Emotional Balance Matter
First off, why bother with essential oils at all? Well, empaths absorb emotions like sponges. Anxiety, panic, trauma - these aren’t just words; they’re daily battles. Essential oils offer a natural, gentle way to create emotional boundaries and restore calm. They don’t just mask feelings; they help transform your emotional state.
For example, lavender oil is a classic. It’s like a soft hug for your nervous system. When anxiety creeps in, a few drops on your wrists or a diffuser nearby can ease that tight chest feeling. Frankincense? It’s grounding, helping you stay centred when emotions swirl around you like a storm.
Using oils for emotional balance isn’t about escaping reality. It’s about embracing your sensitivity with tools that empower you. Plus, it’s fun! Who doesn’t love a little aromatherapy ritual to brighten the day?

Top Essential Oils to Support Empaths
Alright, let’s get to the good stuff. Here are some of my favourite essential oils that have helped me and countless others find emotional balance:
Lavender - Calming, reduces anxiety, promotes restful sleep.
Frankincense - Grounding, enhances meditation, reduces stress.
Bergamot - Uplifting, eases feelings of sadness and worry.
Chamomile - Soothing, great for calming nervous tension.
Rose - Heart-opening, supports emotional healing.
Peppermint - Refreshing, clears mental fog and boosts energy.
Ylang Ylang - Balances emotions, reduces feelings of overwhelm.
Here’s a little tip: blend a few drops of lavender, frankincense, and bergamot in a roller bottle with a carrier oil. Apply it to your pulse points when you feel emotionally overloaded. It’s like a portable emotional shield!
If you want to dive deeper into the world of essential oils for empaths, there are some fantastic resources and events that can guide you further.

How do you protect your energy if you're an empath?
This question is the million-dollar one, isn’t it? Protecting your energy feels like trying to hold water in your hands sometimes. But here’s the secret: it’s about creating boundaries and nurturing yourself.
Essential oils can be your frontline defence. For example, sage and cedarwood oils are known for their protective properties. Burning sage is a traditional way to clear negative energy, but diffusing sage or cedarwood oil can do the same without the smoke. It’s like a gentle energetic cleanse.
Another trick? Use vetiver oil. It’s deeply grounding and helps you stay anchored in your own energy, not the emotional chaos around you. I like to dab a little on the back of my neck before heading into crowded places.
And don’t forget the power of ritual. Lighting a candle, setting an intention, and inhaling your favourite essential oil blend can create a mental and emotional barrier. It’s a small act, but it sends a big message to your nervous system: “I am safe. I am protected.”

How to Use Essential Oils for Emotional Support
Now, you might be wondering how to actually use these oils without turning your home into a spa (unless that’s your goal, of course!). Here are some practical ways to incorporate essential oils into your daily life:
Diffusing: Add 5-10 drops to your diffuser. Great for creating a calming atmosphere at home or work.
Topical application: Dilute essential oils with a carrier oil (like jojoba or almond oil) and apply to pulse points, wrists, or the back of your neck.
Inhalation: Put a drop or two on a tissue or cotton ball and breathe deeply when you need a quick emotional reset.
Bath: Add a few drops to your bathwater for a soothing soak that melts away stress.
Massage: Mix oils with a carrier oil and use for a gentle self-massage to release tension.
Remember, essential oils are potent. Always do a patch test to check for skin sensitivity. And if you’re pregnant or have health conditions, consult a professional before use.
Embracing Your Empathic Nature with Essential Oils
Being an empath isn’t about hiding from the world or shutting down your feelings. It’s about embracing your unique sensitivity and learning how to thrive with it. Essential oils are just one tool in your emotional toolkit, but they’re a powerful one.
When I started using essential oils, I noticed a shift. I felt less overwhelmed, more grounded, and even excited about my empathic gifts. It’s like I finally had a way to say, “Hey world, I’m here, and I’m okay.”
If you’re ready to explore this path, check out the essential oils for empaths resources. There’s a whole community waiting to support you.
So, why not give it a try? Pick up a bottle of lavender or frankincense today and see how it changes your emotional landscape. You deserve that calm, that balance, that little spark of joy in the middle of the storm.
Feel free to share your experiences or favourite oils in the comments. I’m always excited to hear how others are navigating this empathic journey!




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